Kidsit Founder, Editor, Illustrator, and father of three beautiful kids in Sydney, Australia.
If parents need to get away for more than an evening, you may be asked to babysit overnight.
How do you babysit overnight? Babysitting overnight usually includes putting the kids to bed and also sleeping over at the family's house yourself. You'll need to bring additional items like a spare change of clothes and bathroom supplies. How you bill for your babysitting services also changes a bit overnight.
In this article, you'll learn what overnight babysitting involves, what items you should bring, how to prepare, and what questions to ask parents before they leave.
Babysitting can come in different forms. Sometimes you'll need to act as a tutor and help kids with math homework. Other times you'll act as a means of transportation to safely get kids home from school. Babysitting overnight is just another request that parents might have.
Babysitting overnight involves staying in the family's house while the kids are asleep until the next day. Sometimes if the parents will be getting back very late, it's just easier for you to sleep at the house instead of going home at 3 or 4 am as well.
Overnight babysitting is a bit more relaxed in terms of duties than a regular babysitting shift. For most of the time you're at the house, the kids will hopefully be in bed asleep. That means fewer messes to clean up, fewer activities, and fewer arguments between siblings.
Once the kids are asleep, you're pretty much free to do whatever you want in most cases. It's more housesitting than babysitting usually! It's not like you need to stay up to keep watch. You're free to get a good night's rest too. You're mostly just there to keep the kids safe and help them out if they wake up and need a drink or have a nightmare.
For more helpful tips about nighttime babysitting activities, check out my article: Babysitting at Night.
Whenever you go babysitting, it's best to bring your babysitting binder or bag along – Check out my article: How to create your own babysitting binder.
But besides your usual babysitting essentials, there are some extra things you'll need to bring as well.
You'll want to bring much of the same stuff that you'd bring if you were going to a sleepover at a friend's house.
You'll want all your necessary bathroom supplies to get ready for bed while you're babysitting overnight. It's a bit rude to use another family's bathroom supplies while you're staying over.
You'll want to bring a toothbrush and toothpaste and deodorant for sure.
You'll also want to bring any things you'll need to get ready in the morning as well, like a hairbrush or comb, and hair bands or clips if you've got long hair.
Pack any other personal things like lip balm that you might also want.
It makes sense to get a small toiletry bag that can keep all of your personal hygiene supplies organized and in one place.
Bring any prescriptions or medications that you need to take on a daily basis.
If you have asthma, don't forget to pack your inhaler if you need it!
If you're allergic to a pet the family has, it's a good idea to pack some allergy medication as well. Otherwise, you might be in for a very rough and sniffly night. Bring an EpiPen if your allergies are severe or life-threatening.
Bring prescription glasses if you need them to read as well.
When you're sleeping over, you want to bring a comfy pair of pajamas to wear. A fleece onesie is a good choice, and the kids you're babysitting will probably like it too.
You'll want to pack an extra pair of clothes, socks, and underwear for the next day in addition to your pajamas.
See our complete guide: What to wear when babysitting for some practical outfit ideas as well as things you should definitely avoid.
If the family has a pool or there's any chance you might go swimming, bring a swimsuit and a towel as well. See our guide to Babysitting at the pool for a complete checklist.
It's always good to have a little extra cash on hand just in case there's an unexpected emergency, or you decide to take the kids for an activity or outing that requires money.
You can always use it to order some pizza or another form of food delivery if you get hungry.
Nowadays pretty much everybody is carrying their cell phone on them at all times. But you might not think to bring your charger with you as well. Your phone is no good if the battery is dead, so having a way to charge it is a must.
Having a phone is important in case you need to get ahold of parents or they need to get ahold of you. Or in case of any kind of emergency. Make sure that you've got numbers stored in your phone to reach the parents at, along with a doctor or any other important contact you may need.
You might want to bring a tablet to keep yourself entertained between when the kids go to bed and you decide it's time to sleep for yourself. If you have homework or a project to work on, you can bring a laptop and work on that during your downtime as well. It always feels good to get paid to do your homework!
It's worth packing some snacks in your bag. Either for yourself or so you can share with the kids you're babysitting.
Unwind and enjoy some potato chips, or some fresh fruit if you're more health-conscious.
If you're going to be sharing your snacks, make sure to ask the parents ahead of time to make sure that it's okay with them. It's their house and you want to be respectful of any rules they might have about what their kids can or can't eat, especially right before bed.
Some parents don't allow candy in their house at all, and they might be a bit annoyed if they find candy wrappers in the garbage the next day!
Younger kids will go to bed quite early. But if you're babysitting older kids, you might want to bring some games and toys to keep them busy until bedtime.
Bring some board games, a video game console, or some crafts for the kids to do. We have some excellent craft ideas for kids that you can try.
You could also bring an MP3 player to play some music. Get the kids dancing to burn off some extra energy and getting them to sleep afterward won't be a problem!
If you're not used to being away from home, you might even want to bring a favorite stuffed animal for yourself to sleep with.
Parents deserve a chance to unwind and have a night away from the kids for themselves!
So try your best to check in with them and get all of your questions answered before they leave. That way you won't have to call and interrupt their plans during the night.
I strongly recommend writing down any important instructions. If you just get them verbally, it can be easy to forget. Print out our parent details form, it's perfect for this.
This can include anything from child-related things to items around the house.
You can ask parents to demonstrate if there's a special way that they rock their child to get them to go to sleep. Babies are used to having things done a certain way. So the closer you can get to copying what the parents would normally do, the easier it will be for the child.
It's important to discuss little details like how to use the oven or washing machine in case you need it too. The appliances in everybody's house are a bit different and it can be hard to know which buttons to press.
Try to get parents to leave you a list of must-know items before they leave. This will include any special instructions, like favourite toys or activities kids like.
If the family has a burglar alarm system in their home, be sure to get a lesson on how to set it before you go to bed and how to disarm it when you wake up.
Kids are all about routine. So get parents to let you know when their child eats, naps, and go to bed.
Get them to explain their usual bedtime routine including if the child needs a bath (See our 21 bathtime tips), where their pajamas are if you need to read them a story before bed, and what time they should be in bed by. Keeping your babysitting schedule as close to the family's regular schedule will keep things moving and help to avoid temper tantrums.
Still struggling to get kids to bed on time? Check out my article: How to Get Kids to Bed When Babysitting.
You'll want to know everything that the child needs for the night. If they have a specific toy that they love to sleep with, or if there's certain music they listen to before bed.
If you'll be changing diapers, get them to run you through the whole routine. Don't be afraid to ask questions. Particularly if the family uses cloth diapers and you've only changed diapers with disposables before because the process can be a bit different. You'll want to have all the diapering supplies easily accessible for when you inevitably need to use them.
If it's your first time babysitting for a family, it's a good idea to get a full tour of the house. You'll want to know where stuff like extra towels or toilet paper are kept that you might need if you're just babysitting for more than a couple of hours.
All kids have their own little quirks. Some kids might poop a lot more than average. Some babies will cry for 5 minutes before they go to sleep. Other kids need their blankets pulled all the way up to their chin when you say goodnight!
Ask parents if there's anything out of the ordinary or different from most kids so that you can be aware of it. That way it won't be a cause for alarm and you know what's normal or expected.
You also need to be aware of any health problems the child is having, such as if they've got the flu. Ask about any medication or special health requirements that the children you're babysitting might have.
See our guide: How to babysit a sick child for extra tips for kids not feeling well.
You may not have babysat at a time when pets had to be fed before. But if parents are going away overnight, that will most likely be the case.
Learn where food for dogs, cats, or other pets is kept. You'll also need to know how much to give them at each meal and when you feed them. Along with how often they might need to be let outside.
It's a good idea to have some extra treats on hand too. If a dog is outside and won't seem to come back inside when you call them, a tasty snack will usually get them running back to you very quickly!
If their dog is anxious or scared of new people, you might want to arrive a little early to get to know the family pet as well. Treats come in handy here too. Give any pet a few treats and you'll quickly transform from a scary stranger to their best friend!
In addition to feeding yourself and the pets, you might need to feed the kids as well if you arrive before dinner time. If the parents won't be home right away, you may need to help them with breakfast as well.
Most parents will have specific meals laid out in advance for their kids to eat. All you may need to do is warm it up. But if not, be sure to ask what they can eat and what the parents don't want them to eat.
For infants, you'll need to have some bottled milk, formula, or baby food on hand. If you're not sure how to prepare these, make sure to get clarification before the parents leave. See our guide to babysitting babies for detailed instructions.
Kids under 4 years old shouldn't eat raw carrots, popcorn, nuts, or other items that might cause them to choke.
It's not just about what they eat, but how they eat it too! Kids might be old enough to eat grapes or hot dogs, but for younger kids, these should be cut up into small pieces instead of served whole too. Otherwise, they may be a choking hazard. Particularly if a child's baby teeth haven't come in yet.
So what kind of rate should you charge when babysitting overnight? You'll likely need to negotiate a special pay scale that's different from your regular rate.
Normally you don't pay someone as much while they're sleeping compared to actively babysitting. But you should still get some compensation for being there, even if you're asleep. You're in someone else's house instead of your own bed so it will be harder to sleep. Plus the kids might not sleep through the night.
You're still "on duty" the entire time that you're at the family's home, even if it's more of an on-call or as-needed basis.
There are a few different ways that you could price the job. It's usually easiest to give a single flat rate that includes the full time that you'll be babysitting for. It's pretty normal to charge $50 or $75 for staying the night, on top of any regular babysitting hours that you worked while the kids were awake.
If you arrive around 7 or 8 pm and spend the night, plus get the kids ready for school the next day, then I think around $75 to $100 as a flat rate is fair.
Your rate will really go up if you need to babysit for several days in a row. For example, if you arrive on Friday afternoon and don't leave until the following Monday afternoon. In that case, you've spent 3 days and 3 nights babysitting. Depending on the prices you agree to for days and nights, you might make a flat amount like $400 to $600.
As a general rule, I would charge about half your regular rate for overnight hours. As soon as you wake up in the morning to start taking care of the kids, I would go back to your normal rate.
I would also charge the normal rate for any time that you need to wake up and help kids during the night.
For more pricing tips and tricks, check out my articles:
Babysitting overnight is generally more laid back than babysitting during the day. There's a lot less to worry about and take care of while the kids are asleep, and you even get paid to sleep there yourself!
It takes a bit more preparation though. You should communicate with parents to learn any special things that you need to do overnight. That includes special bedtime routines, as well as if you need to feed or take care of any pets.
You'll also need to pack some extra items including a change of clothes and any bathroom supplies you need before going to bed.
Are you doing a lot of overnight babysitting gigs? You'll find our guide to babysitting night shifts full of essential tips for coping with irregular sleeping times.
Kidsit Founder, Editor, Illustrator, and father of three beautiful kids in Sydney, Australia.
Published: 26 May 2019
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