Kidsit Founder, Editor, Illustrator, and father of three beautiful kids in Sydney, Australia.
While you're babysitting, you might start to feel tired and wonder if it's okay to sleep or not.
Can babysitters sleep while they're on the job? Sleeping on the job is usually not recommended. You need to be awake and ready to tend to any needs of the children you're watching. But there are a few exceptions like if you're babysitting overnight.
In this article I'll explain why sleeping while you're babysitting is generally frowned upon, times when it might be okay, and six tips to help keep yourself awake while you're working.
Sleeping on the job might not be a great idea as parents may be angry that you're sleeping while they're paying for you. If you're going to take a nap after the children you're watching have gone to bed, be sure to check with the parents first and make sure they're okay with it.
Even if the parents you're babysitting for are okay with you going to sleep, it's a good idea to set an alarm and wake up shortly before the parents say they'll be home.
Having a sleeping babysitter can also be scary for a child. They might wake up and call for the babysitter but not get a response, which could cause them to panic. You also won't be as able to hear if a child gets into some kind of trouble or if there's an emergency.
Generally speaking, the older the children you're babysitting, the more likely they are to sleep through the night. So for older kids, getting some rest yourself isn't as big of a deal.
What kind of things should you do after the kids are asleep? Read our 10 dos and 6 don'ts that all babysitters should know.
There is some debate between babysitters about whether it's okay to sleep while you're working or not. Answers can also vary from family to family that you're babysitting for. So it can be hard to get a clear answer that applies to all circumstances.
The one time that it's 100% acceptable for a babysitter to sleep is while they're babysitting overnight. If you're going to be babysitting from evening until the next morning, it's assumed that you're going to sleep. You aren't expected to stay up and keep watch all night.
Most parents adjust the rates they pay for overnight babysitters to account for this. You will probably get paid less, usually about half your regular rate, during the overnight hours that you'll be sleeping.
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Taking a nap while the kids you're watching are still awake is pretty universally considered a bad idea. After all, you're specifically there to take care of them!
If the kids are awake, you should be engaging with them, supervising them, and keeping them busy. Not catching up on missed sleep!
Avoid staying up late or going to a party the night before if you know you're going to have to babysit. Otherwise, you may be too exhausted to give the children you're watching the proper level of care.
Catching some shut-eye yourself while kids are napping is a bit more of a grey area. Some parents might be okay with you resting while the kids have an afternoon nap. Other parents may expect you to be awake the entire time you're working, and could also expect you to do other tasks like cleaning or tidying up while the kids are asleep.
Even if you have permission from parents to sleep while their kids are taking a nap, it's still a good idea to keep a baby monitor close to you so that you'll know if the kids wake up and need assistance.
Here are some things to help you from getting sleepy while you're babysitting.
If you know that you're going to be babysitting until later into the night, or even if you're just feeling tired, it can be a good idea to have a nap at home before you go. If you have a busy schedule then this might not always be possible, but it's a good option when it's available.
If you're working at night, turn on as many bright lights as possible to help keep you alert and awake. If you're babysitting during the day, keep the curtains and blinds open to let in natural sunlight.
Have some snacks while you're babysitting to help keep your blood sugar steady.
Bring some healthy snacks like a salad, lite crackers, nuts and dried fruit, veggies, granola, or fresh fruit with you.
Candy can help wake you up, but you may experience a sugar crash a few hours later. So it isn't a great choice if you still have a long night ahead of you.
You'll need to wear headphones so that you don't wake the kids you're babysitting, but putting on some loud upbeat music can help keep your energy level up and prevent you from getting drowsy.
Just remember to check on the kids regularly as you might not hear them over the music.
If the kids are still awake, you can play some music through speakers to make things more high-energy for everyone.
If you're old enough to drink coffee, bringing some with you to your babysitting job never hurts. If tea, energy drinks, or soda are more your thing, those can work too.
It's a good idea not to drink caffeine too late during your babysitting shift though, or you might have trouble sleeping once you get home.
If you can't have caffeinated beverages, just drinking water can help keep you alert as well. Being dehydrated can make it harder to stay focused and awake.
If you're just sitting on the couch, you'll naturally start to feel a bit sluggish. Walk around the house a bit to wake yourself up. You can't go for a walk outside while you're babysitting, but you can open up a window to get a little bit of fresh air.
Here are some other common questions you may have:
Check with parents to be sure what the sleeping arrangements are before they leave.
Most parents may not be comfortable having you sleep in their bed. It can be a lot of extra work for them to change the bedsheets before you arrive and wash the bedsheets again after you leave. If it hasn't been discussed, it's best to assume that you should sleep on the couch.
It depends on the age of the child.
Newborns and infants don't have circadian rhythms at first and sleep in short bursts all throughout the day and night. One-year-olds might start to have a consistent bedtime as early as 6 pm. Even school-aged children (such as between the ages of 7 and 12) are still very active and experiencing a lot of growth, so they should go to bed between 7 and 9 pm.
But it's best to ask the parents about the child's bedtime routine before they leave. Jot down any instructions in our Parent details form so you can remember exactly what to do.
There are two main approaches. Some people charge half their standard rate for the hours that they're asleep. Others get paid their standard hourly rate while they're awake and then get paid a flat amount ranging from about $50 to $150 for the overnight portion. Usually, the overnight portion will cover from a specific timeframe, such as from 8 pm to 8 am the next day.
Although you can negotiate with your particular family. Many babysitters will also charge their regular rate for any times that they need to wake up and assist children they're babysitting during the night.
See our Babysitting rate guide to learn some secret tips for pricing your overnight babysitting services.
Babysitting at night is different than babysitting during the day. Read my article on babysitting at night to learn some of the key differences.
Whether you can sleep while babysitting depends. While the kids you're watching are awake, you should be awake and taking care of them.
But once the kids go to bed, it's a bit of a grey area. If you're going to be babysitting overnight and staying until morning, you are allowed to sleep. But if you can sleep when you're only babysitting for the evening will really depend on the parents who are paying you. It's best to ask and see what their expectations are in advance.
Even if you get approval from parents to rest while their kids are sleeping or napping, it's still best to use a baby monitor or keep a close ear in case the children wake up.
Do you find late night babysitting interrupts your sleep routine too much? If so, you should read our article: The essential guide to babysitting night shifts for some brilliant tips from Emma Smith, an emergency nurse who has worked irregular shifts for over 12 years.
Kidsit Founder, Editor, Illustrator, and father of three beautiful kids in Sydney, Australia.
Published: 13 June 2019
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